Monthly Archives: August 2022


Where your conscience speaks to you there you will find your spirituality! There you will find your truth!
There you will realize what you must do !
The day of gurus, power preachers, celebrities and the Demi gods of idol worship are crumbling….
Little by little all that was is no more…..
There are no groups to join, no parties to hold onto, or any longer any religion that can condemn you or help you in front of this world.
It is only in this freedom you will come into conscious contact with God!
God is commanding a personal private appointment with you….
wake up! The universe is watching to see what will you do!
All that we knew is but rubbish ….. when we are in This magnificent presence!
How small we are and how short is this “ life”….
What will you do with the talents ? Will you
bury them?
Chaos has brought us to this place and it is out of the chaos we will find our journey!



You want to know what separates people?
Creates hate?
Creates animosity?
Creates years of misunderstanding?
Keeps people away from God?
Makes people think that they must work hard to be good Christians so God will love them?
Create fear of being not included?
Fear of being excluded?
Fear of not being enough?
Fear of being too much?
Must I keep going???????????????

How horribly deceptive , destructive and disconnected is this power we can use against each other!
We all have our opinions and that is totally different …. Your opinion is yours and it should not be something forced on anyone else. This is intelligence!

How much has this ugly force of judging yourself destroyed you?
Judging others?
Judging even God?
How much has this cost you?
Has it ever brought any benefits?

Now please do not be confused with the legal system …. Because if your thinking like that at the moment than you most likely need to think about this subject more. Being defensive is the weapon of judging !!!!!!
They go hand in hand!

If you or I want to change our lives!
Change our families!
Change others!
Than stop JUDGING !!!!!!

We have all done things, failed, made mistakes, wrong choices, hurt others, amd our list of skeletons continue as they rattle in our dark closets!

So why? Why when we may find ourselves in a “ better” position at the moment do we feel the need to find those we can look down at to judge?
Don’t we know by now that life goes up and down……

Judging is so in spiritual that even Jesus was repulsed by it, and many spiritual teachings speak against it!

Yet, we will find some of the best judges in spiritual circles! Go figure!
People with money love to judge … they actually believe because they have made money or received it they are better people snd their opinions hold power to judge others. I think they are called hypocrites? Yes!

Knowledge is another one! People who have acquired knowledge feel that their educated thoughts, ideas and opinions are golden! Now to be clear I respect education and those who have attained . But, I think we are all enrolled in the University called Life.
We are all learning!
Using your education to judge others that are close to you creates division.
If we could learn to take things like our money, our education and etc…. and use them to help others not based on judgment but, love how much better off we would be!

Obviously there are times we all will need to use our discretion in situations but have we learned how to do this without judgment?

How can we really believe we are capable of judging others lives when we may actually know nothing or very little about them? That is idiotic!

If we desire to walk in our power and truth we must be willing to look at those we judge for the very things we see. The world around us is a cosmic mirror and it does reflect what we see… it may not look the same exactly. But, it will be there if we are truly willing to look for it.

Are you?
Am I?


The Gift

The greatest gift you can give to others is to honor their sacred path

Love allows this!

We need to learn to see that although we are connected, we each have a path we must trod

We may journey together but, our path is our own

This is your destiny!

Many times in our lives we may see someone we feel is making a wrong choice based on our perception of what is right or wrong

Truth is that they may or may not be making a mistake or maybe you could be wrong …. Maybe? Possibly?

Either way you must let others choose their path and not judge them for it

Each one of us needs to be true to ourselves wherever we are at in life

and there maybe times that you will be confronted with the judgement of others while being true to yourself.

Be true to yourself anyway!

They may never agree to your choices, they may realize they were wrong or they may realize it’s not their choice to make

Still be true to yourself

Whatever choices you make on your journey you will reap the consequences or benefits along the way. This is what life is about.

Instead of judging we should be cheering others on for being true especially, when the choice they make is not easy, maybe risky and will be hard.

Being true to yourself has nothing to do with making all the choices that feel good or look good

It is when we make the choices that we feel that if we do not make we will feel regret that are truthful

Mistakes can be corrected

Regret is forever!

Be true to yourself!

This is YOUR GIFT!

Parents and Children

Children stop punishing your parents !
Parents stop punishing your children!
To withdraw or withhold ones relationship or love to inflict pain ….
How can this action be healthy of mind?
Let the pain go!
What we learn too late in life is that pain is reproduced through our own offspring and regret cannot be undone.
Why would a parent punish a child who does not do enough, give enough or “be” enough?
Why would a child do the same?
How could this behavior produce any positive result?
Children you may not remember all that your parent suffered , sacrificed and cared for you and the many nights they did not sleep ….
Are you still keeping them awake tonight?
Parents you may not have been aware of all the times your children have given you their hearts in something as a simple drawing, a kiss or hug
Are you still looking for something more?
I have seen so many people suffer because of this deep pain ( parents and children) sometimes from both ends at the same time.
Isn’t the world harsh enough without adding to it?
If there is one sadness in the world that if it was rectified that could change the whole world ….it would be this sadness!
Why do those who are closest to us break our hearts?
Yet, it is when this connection is severed, punished or unrecognized that we will reap what we have sown.
You cannot retrieve back the time that has been lost and there is not enough money to pay the price for this grief
The days grow shorter
Why ?
Will it be worth it?
Will it truly matter?
Pain reproduces itself and we never learn this until it’s too late
Parents love your children
Children love your parents
This disconnection that exists among us that has caused untold amounts of deep quiet grief and torture is an empty well
Is your grudge big enough?
Is it “ strong” enough?
When will we stop expecting, judging and hurting each other?
Why can’t a child learn to love their parent the best that they can?
Why can’t parents do the same?
There is one thing on this earth you cannot forget ….
A parent cannot forget a child and a child cannot forget a parent
We get to decide how we are going to carry this memory through our actions of today.
Is being “ right” more important than being “ happy”?
You may say I don’t care but, if you don’t think you do now , does not mean that you won’t later ?
Stop withholding your love, your kindness and your time.
Stop the cycle!
Children will always grow up remembering some “ wrong” and parents will never forget a child’s “ bad” decision
You cannot forget and each has their own views
There are no perfect parents or perfect children!
Stop punishing each other…
One may say , “ I am not doing anything wrong?”
No response is a response
No action is a reaction
How can something so sacred be so broken?
Love each other
Do what you can to enrich each other’s lives
All it takes is a phone call
A message
A visit
A simple I love ❤️ you
Don’t waste your time
Is your right to be “ right” worth discovering your choice was harmful and wrong?
Using your “ right”, or “ choice” , or even “ perception” to punish each other today could earn painful scars tomorrow !
Tears that cannot be undone –
Showing love takes a lot less energy than punishing someone either by action or inaction
Choose Love!
Parents talk to your children
Children talk to your parents
Don’t be too late!
Pain reproduces itself …….
Just look around and see …. The truth is before you everywhere you turn.

A Parent

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